The Truth
October 22, 2008
PUAs are the Kaplan/Princeton Review of Game. Mystery, the crazy looking dude on VH1, offers lessons at $10k per day and his method of Game, while somewhat insane, absolutely works. The reason, most beta type males are so afraid to talk to women, that they start going out and repeating the lines they learned at one of these seminars and find a minimal amount of instant success, only rarely getting any actual ass.
The simple tricks and lines they teach you will get a girl to start talking to you, but most guys get so excited that they start to lose command of their verbal, and non verbal communication, and inevitably fall into a feeling of self doubt and general beta behavior. If you want to actually get over your seemingly terrible sex life you need to start internalizing this way of life, and start to approach everything the same. You can’t spend 15 minutes thinking about a move, hell 5 minutes, because by then it may be too late.
Game is a skill and like any skill it must be honed, and incorporated into daily life. Your inner-game, what you actually think, has to be hardened. When you see a girl you shouldn’t be thinking about why she doesn’t like you, but rather why she’s not good enough for you. If you believe it, your walk, attitude and overall demeanor changes tremendously. I’m not going to tell you that this is some easy shit to do and that it will happen over night. Depending on the level of betaness you display this could be a many year process to change, but since that’s all I see on network TV, I believe that Change must happen. The truth is to get the quality tail, you have to put in the quality time, the same as you would with learning golf, or a foreign language.