Swagger Like Us

How often have you been in a bar, lounge, office building and seen someone walk in with a certain swagger, like they owned the place.  Everyone immediately notices that person or persons, even if you don’t say anything, you feel like you want their approval.  I’m not talking about some wishy washy psychoanalysis BS, but deep down you want that cool person to like you.

For a girl, she walks in with a big smile, head held up, hair and outfit meant to shine and proclaims I’m the hottest thing in this club, and everyone knows it.  Every guy turns and stares, and once she catches you doing it, you’re already out of the picture, but not to worry she got her satisfaction from you.  You can still go home and feel like a good guy.

For a guy, he walks in with his head held high, dressed slightly better than those around him, an ear to ear grin, and immediately starts talking to people.  He tells everyone yeah I know I’m of high status and high quality.  If he sees a girl looking at him, he makes brief eye contact, flashes a slight grin, and continues on his way, but not to worry ladies he still may come over and say hi to you or your hot friend.   You can still go home and feel like an attractive girl.

That’s Swagger, and until you learn to master it, you can’t master game or become a true alpha, male or female.  So go out there and watch a master, and walk into your next bar, lounge, meeting room with that attitude and see how people treat you.

The Truth

PUAs are the Kaplan/Princeton Review of Game.  Mystery, the crazy looking dude on VH1, offers lessons at $10k per day and his method of Game, while somewhat insane, absolutely works.  The reason, most beta type males are so afraid to talk to women, that they start going out and repeating the lines they learned at one of these seminars and find a minimal amount of instant success, only rarely getting any actual ass.

The simple tricks and lines they teach you will get a girl to start talking to you, but most guys get so excited that they start to lose command of their verbal, and non verbal communication, and inevitably fall into a feeling of self doubt and general beta behavior.  If you want to actually get over your seemingly terrible sex life you need to start internalizing this way of life, and start to approach everything the same.  You can’t spend 15 minutes thinking about a move, hell 5 minutes, because by then it may be too late.

Game is a skill and like any skill it must be honed, and incorporated into daily life.  Your inner-game, what you actually think, has to be hardened.  When you see a girl you shouldn’t be thinking about why she doesn’t like you, but rather why she’s not good enough for you.  If you believe it, your walk, attitude and overall demeanor changes tremendously.  I’m not going to tell you that this is some easy shit to do and that it will happen over night.  Depending on the level of betaness you display this could be a many year process to change, but since that’s all I see on network TV, I believe that Change must happen.  The  truth is to get the quality tail, you have to put in the quality time, the same as you would with learning golf, or a foreign language.